Confusion can flip on like a defense mechanism when we are afraid of change, automatically shutting us down. Slow down, relax, acknowledge we do not have to get everything right the first time, and ask for help. Sometimes we really are confused and not clear about information we need; but be wary of hiding or staying confused, which can turn into passive aggressive behavior. Change is not about being perfect, it is about experimentation, adventure and even fun so long as we are learning and adjusting. Which we have to do anyway, so why not play into it?!